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Lucrative Affiliate Marketing Secrets Revealed Give Away Rights Ebook

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The Tease Is In The Squeeze

First of all, a brief explanation of what a squeeze page is and how it works is in order. In the purest sense, a squeeze page is a highly optimized and focused lead generator catering to a specific niche; the public-facing top (aka "mouth") of a highly profitable Traffic Funnel.

The very best converting squeeze pages are the ones that never attempt to be "all things to everyone": They excel at catering to one specific niche's problems and concerns.

Think of your squeeze page as your rapport-building mini "solutions provider" that never sleeps and is willing to tirelessly serve your niche aficionados 24/7 (yep, even on Holidays).

For example, your visitor lands on your site, and sees your invitation to a...

Free download,

Free subscription,

Free trial / sample,

Or some combination thereof.

Done right, your visitor is practically salivating to get in on the action. And unless you have a REALLY damn good reason for doing so, your squeeze page should never, ever ask fer more personally identifiable info than just an email address (and at the very most, maybe their first name).

Numerous marketing studies over the years have shown that opt-in rates are directly related to the amount of information being collected. When split-tested, just an email address and nothing else generated the highest response.

Opt-in conversions were discovered to rapidly decline on opt-in form split tests requesting more than just an email and first name.

Now after your visitor submits their details, your autoresponder then automatically sends them an email with an opt in verification link. Right after clicking on the verification link, they are either:

Automatically sent a second email containing the access link,

Or instantly able to access whatever the promised goodies are (depending on how you set your Traffic Funnel up).

Although there's a wide variety of different squeeze page strategies, that's the overall gist of a basic squeeze page.

However, it's the different Traffic Funnel styles that open up exciting venues of opportunity for you to get creative. Let us now explore several intriguing Traffic Funnel tips, strategies, and characteristics.

Traffic Funnel Style Example

The following Traffic Funnel style example consists of a highly compelling opt-in offer and a download page containing the access link(s) to the goodies promised; with a precisely-matched premium offer presented to the viewer.

Except in this case, this good ol' fashioned Traditional Sales Funnel has been optimized for Affiliate Marketers with a couple of innovative twists:

Your Thank You Page: Right below your "Thanks for subscribing!" spiel (and of course, the download links to that which was promised), start a new paragraph with something like...

"Hi, my name is {name}, and just so you know, I'm a practical, no-nonsense kind of {guy/girl} who accurately reports both strengths and weaknesses of the products I review. In other words, I am an actual end user of the products and service that I recommend.

You might find the following candid review I did on {insert product here} a real eye-opener. If nothing else, my unbiased reporting on {insert product here} will definitely come in handy for knowing the pro's and con's. Enjoy!"

Proceed to do exactly that... A detailed honest review with an investigative journalism feel to it. Hold absolutely nothing back: what you loved about it, what you weren't so thrilled about, how it could stand to be improved, any real positive results you experienced with said product, etc.

You'll be pleasantly astounded at how fast this can build rapport with your subscribers, while at the same time conveniently lowering buyer resistance.

The key to making this approach work like gangbusters is to be 100% honest and sincere with your reviews.

However, the absolute worst way to go about it, is to force your new subscriber to endure a mile-long sales page BEFORE getting access to that which was promised. It's rude, pushy and creates dissonance between you and your new sub (i.e. pushing them to quickly and easily opting out). Bad Juju.

Giving Up Smoking Now MRR Ebook

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Chapter 5: Getting Motivated

Synopsis

Over the years I’ve witnessed many smokers trying to quit, entirely against their will, who still manage to succeed in stopping smoking. I occasionally see young people who are being coerced by their parents to quit. Occasionally it’s grownups who are forced by physicians, while other times it’s grownups who have been tricked into going to seminars by loved ones and friends who literally take them to the program under some sort of false pretense, like they’re just going to dinner. Although I won't state this tactic works in the bulk of cases, it works far more frequently than most individuals would believe.

The Power

To state that these individuals had no prior motive or desire to stop smoking would likely not be true. I surmise most smokers have a little level of motivation to stop, but motivation without an understanding of nicotine addiction and its treatment isn't adequate to succeed. That's why most seminars attempt to cram in information as fast as possible.

The crucial things to understand are why individuals smoke, why they ought to stop, how to stop, and how to remain free. All 4 of these areas are essential points of understanding for an individual pondering quitting. Without a firm grasp of each element, the smoker will be disabled in his or her effort to stop.

Understanding why he or she smokes helps the smoker discover that all the magic qualities affiliated with smoking were based on fallacies and feelings. While most smokers believe they smoke because they wish to, the true reason they smoke is because they have to. They're addicted to nicotine and their bodies are requiring that they smoke. They're drug addicts, plain and simple, and realizing this premise is the essential opening move.

As with any other addiction or 12-step curriculum, the assumption of being powerless over the drug is the beginning step in recovery. You must realize that while you thought smoking was keeping you calm, it was really increasing your stress levels, or more precisely, your responses to tension. While you believe smoking makes you energetic, in point of fact, it's robbing you of endurance and energy. While smokers frequently feel that smoking allows you to have fun and lead more socially active life-styles, it's really impairing and restricting your power to enlist in many activities and to formulate new relationships.

As contrary to enhancing your power to be vivacious and active members of society, it's in fact inducing you to resort to a lot of asocial behaviors. It led you to smoke in position of human contact, frequently leaving assemblies or declining to attend functions where smoking is no longer permitted. Why an individual ought to quit smoking is likely the least surprising sort of info, as many smokers already understand that smoking is bad for them.

The issue is that most individuals don't realize how bad it is. Many are overpowered when they amply recognize the true magnitude of the perils of smoking. The realization that stopping smoking is in point of fact a battle for survival is often of predominant importance in long-run success. This info is often vital for dealing with the occasional thoughts that are still sparked off by conditions and situations faced throughout the ex-smoker's life.

How to stop - now this is a shock to most: individuals initially quit because they begin to realize smoking is killing them. They then find out that the huge majority of these individuals quit cold turkey. How to remain off, "don't let a err put you back to smoking." That makes as much feel as stating to a recovering alcoholic "don't let a drink put you back to drinking," or a heroin junky being given the message "don't let a little shot put you back to using." The message has to be stronger than that. Not, "don't let a err put you back to using," the message ought to be - do not err!

There has no such thing as an err, or a chance event, or a slip, or a puff, or merely one - they're all terms that are really defining a backsliding! This point, more than any other is what is going to make quitting last. Blanking out this concept, or worse, never acknowledging it all but assures failure.

I've seen the mightiness of education work 1000s of times in helping decently prepare smokers to stop. Again, that issue is more than merely instructing the physical perils of smoking. It means the smoker develops a full grasp of the physical, mental, social, economical, and aesthetic significances of smoking. I've likewise witnessed personal understanding germinate into a mighty tool utilized by 1000s of ex-smokers in keeping up their resolve to stay away from smokes too. They'll carry on maintaining their resolve so long as they go on to appreciate why they quit in the first place, and keeping those reasons in the forefront of their awareness.

May we motivate a smoker to wish to quit? I think many smokers who have smoked cigarettes for any appreciable time period are already motivated. While perhaps not all smokers as a whole, it's likely that any smoker who turns up at a quit smoking clinic on his or her own accord, or who's typed the words "quit smoking" into a Net search engine, has some initial concern and wants more info on how to quit.

So essentially, the answer to whether or not an individual may be motivated to want to quit is "yes." As a matter of fact most smokers already have some motive in place. Understand that to quit smoking and remain off cigarettes and save your life... never pick up another smoke.

Wrapping Up

Are you a nicotine addict? The unmatched attribute that displays the addictive nature of nicotine isn't how difficult or how simple it is to stop, nor is it how difficult or simple it is for a person to stay off smoking. The one real property that presents the power of the addiction is that regardless how long an individual is off, one puff and that resolve to stop can go out the window.

Don't ever try to evidence to yourself that you weren't addicted. You were addicted to nicotine all of the years you used it and you're addicted to it now too. But as an exsmoker the addiction becomes symptomless. To keep it that way and to forever stay in command remember to never pick up another smoke!

Ultimate Guide To Power Copywriting Give Away Rights Ebook

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Exploring The Copywriting G-Spot

Instant gratification. What is there not to like about it?! So as a Copywriter, it's extremely important to assure your potential customers instant delivery. Because let's face it - instant gratification is woven into the very 'fabric' of the Internet; quick and easy impulse buys with just a few mouse clicks. When they're in the mood, people want their stuff Right Now.

Especially if your product is being mailed out via a print-on-demand service such as Kunaki or CafePress... give them some related digital goodies they can download immediately. I reveal a powerful, but highly underutilized strategy for doing exactly this, on page 16 of Lucrative Affiliate Marketing Secrets Revealed.

Also remember to let your potential customers know something along the lines of "Your download is waiting for you on the next page...", or "In mere seconds, enjoy instant access to..." etc.

Copywriting Erogenous Zones:

No distractions. Avoid all unnecessary "click me" noise and contusion.

This is by FAR the biggest problem that I constantly see over and over again... a load of links to see other stuff, and no clear call to action in plain view; to the extent that it often cause an acute case of brain pucker.

Click here to see this, click here to see that... it just plain doesn't work. It's irritating as all get out, and does a great job of losing visitors every time.

No constraints. Worry not about length. Take as much space as you need to magnificently convey the rich benefits of your offer.

As previously discussed in the Seduction Marketing Underground Black Book, the whole 'Long copy style vs. Short copy style' debacle has absolutely nothing to do with word count "length"; but rather visual aesthetics, and info accessibility.

So if you are to become a truly profitable (i.e. sustainable) Copywriter, it's because you actually take the time to understand why these various elements work; and moreover, how they can be effectively 'stacked' for even greater results.

While the Seduction Marketing Underground Black Book does indeed offer you numerous handy checklist-style tools, I chose not include a one-size-fits-all "sales template" for this very reason: Avoid the cookie-cutter mindset at all costs.

Focus. Your sales letter should only ever do four things:

Entice with benefits.

Exude your expertise.

Crush fears and doubts.

Lead to a unified call to action.

There is no #5. That's it!

See your sales letter as kind of a bridge. The starting point on one side is the headline, and anyone who successfully gets across the bridge to the other side has either subscribed or purchased.

To give them the best chance of a safe crossing (i.e. generating a new lead or sale), keep focused, and rip out all the irrelevant garbage that's harming your Traffic Funnel. If it doesn't exude your expertise, entice with benefits, crush fears or unify a call to action... it's gotta go. Pure and simple.

No false assumptions. It's only natural after you've been at something for a long time, that it seems simple or obvious to you. However, it's not necessarily the norm for others.

So depending on the market you're going after, there's going to be some degree of variation in the type of visitor you get (i.e. previous knowledge/experience). This is why it's crucial to truly understand exactly who your precise target demographic is (also covered in greater depth via the Seduction Marketing Underground Black Book).

Spice up your copy. Your writing style should be neither hard-sell all the way, nor boring. Make it come alive; especially in regard to your product's benefits. Remember your product isn't merely 'cool', or 'nice'. Hell no. It's got to be amazing, astounding, rock solid, laser-targeted, and unbeatable.

In other words, get excited - minus the hype, such reckless use of exclamation points (!) - and weave in some of action-oriented Power Words when feasible.

Never lose your mojo. At each stage, you're piling on the Seduction, Persuasion, and Influence like a mad-hot belly dancer who knows her craft; coming to a powerful climax that leads to an opti-in or purchase.

The desirability of your offer should always keep getting sexier and hotter, faster and faster; picking up the pace and piling on those benefits, crushing doubts, appeasing your hunger for pleasure in the form of a lead or sale.

Be sure to go through and make an honest appraisal of each of your sales pages (and squeeze pages), to spot any deviations from the above. Re-work them accordingly, and remember: Small changes can produce big results. It's the snowball effect of your sales letter, and it works like a charm.
It's All About The Action

The call to action is something that IM'ers just starting out are not comfortable with, and end up making their call to action in a weak, roundabout way. Point of fact: A Traffic Funnel's sole purpose is to create a unified call to action. Beat around the bush with an unclear action call - you lose. Pure and simple.

A great way to mitigate customer objections is to explain in plain, simple English why the risk is absolutely minimal, as compared to the benefits.

For example:

Enhance the perceived value and pleasurable gains vs. its cost.

Compare the price to something people can relate to in every day use (i.e. comparing the price to a movie and tub of popcorn).

Specifically when asking for cash (vs. a freebie seeker opt-in), always consider ways to diminish cost importance via the advantages the customer will enjoy.

Your potential customers are simply not going to give you their cash if the benefits they'll enjoy are not at the forefront of their minds. It's just another way of strengthening your offer and giving the readers the impression that your price tag isn't nothing compared to the benefits they're receiving.

Motivate Me Give Away Rights Ebook

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81. There's always more—There is always more you can do to reach your goal. Don’t settle for what you can do right now. Don’t focus on what you’ve achieved in the past, focus on what you can do in the future. You can always achieve more.

82. Results matter most—No matter what anyone says, it isn’t just that you try and do your best. Never forget—Results matter most. Never get complacent or comfortable just because you check a lot of tasks off your list every day, or you use strategies that your friends all agree are the best. Don’t confuse activity for accomplishment.

There's a big difference between the two. If you aren't getting the results you want, you're probably working too hard on the wrong things.

83. Science and technology aren’t everything—Use technology and science, but don't make them everything. Use the latest and most effective research to help you reach your goals. It doesn’t mean anything that you can use technology if you don’t ever reach your goals. That's like a person priding himself on being a business school graduate but losing the sight of the fact he wants to become a successful businessman.

84. Perfection isn’t everything—Look for effectiveness, not perfection. A strategy doesn't need to be optimal in order to be effective. An optimal strategy, without desire and determination, can be just as ineffective as a terrible strategy. Although perfect is great, you don't always need the perfect strategy if your head and heart are in the right place.

85. Let yourself be motivated by others—If you see people who have better accomplishments than yours, admire them. Use what they've accomplished as a source of inspiration. Don't assume they have done anything extraordinary to reach their goals or were bred by geniuses. Use them as motivation that can end up proving you sold yourself short.

86. Associate with people at the level you hope to achieve—If your goal is to get a promotion to a specific position, hang out with people holding that position. See how they got there, and learn from their successes. You’ll find hanging out with determined, optimistic, and driven people will help you maintain motivation and reach your success faster.

87. The basics work—Things don’t have to be glamorous or ingenious to work. Remember that the basics work too. Sometime getting back to basics helps you focus on the goal itself instead of a creative way to achieve the goal.

88. Keep moving forward—It’s not uncommon to get in a slump when working toward your goals. Remember—it will pass. Keep on striving for success and focusing on the goal.

89. Think it and do it—There’s truth to the saying, “If you think you can, you can.” Just think you can do it and start doing it. It may take a while, but always believe you can, and you will. Instead, too often people think they can’t, so they can’t—or don’t.

90. Actualize your potential—Potential is nothing until it’s actualized. People often say, “They have great potential” when speaking of someone. You might have it, but what good is it if you don’t put it to work. Knowing that you have the ability to do it isn’t enough to keep you motivated. Seeing that you can do it and actually achieving it, however, is a great motivator.

91. Measure from start to finish—The most successful person creates the largest gap between where they started and where they are now. The person who starts with few advantages but works his tail off to produce remarkable results is far more successful than the person who is extremely gifted and only ends up with good results. Being one of those who reaches remarkable results will be motivation to start your next project with gusto and you’ll be surprised how your motivation for new tasks will grow over time.

92. Remember...you’re not alone!—You’re not the first person who has struggled to reach a goal, and you certainly won’t be the last. Everyone struggles with staying motivated and reaching their goals. The reality is that refocusing, changing, or making a new start on

something, no matter how small, is a big deal, but it's not impossible. With the right approach, you can definitely do it.

93. Recommit to your goal if you slip up—We all slip from time to time. If you slip up, don't give up. Forgive yourself and make a plan for getting back on track.

94. Don’t beat yourself up for mistakes—Instead, pat yourself on the back for everything you did right. Remember, mistakes are a natural part of the process.

95. Learn from your mistakes—Look at your mistakes as lessons and reminders of why you're trying to make a change. When you mess up, use it as an opportunity to learn something new about yourself.

96. Adopt a stick-to-itiveness attitude—Don’t just stick to working toward the goal. Stick to doing everything you can to make sure that you reach the goal. That includes learning more if necessary and revisiting the goal at a later time.

97. Use positive self-talk—Tell yourself things like, "I deserve to get the promotion because I've really been working hard" or "I feel great when I swim because I'm doing well on my exercise plan."

Seduction Marketing Underground Black Book Give Away Rights Ebook

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Persuasive Seduction Strategy #1: The Foot In The Door Strategy

Imagine getting a random phone call from some telemarketer. Usually, they try to impress you with a grand sales pitch when you answer, but this time is unlike the others. The second you answer the call, he tells you that he is requesting a fast phone survey that requires less than 30 seconds to complete.

He further assures you that there's absolutely no personal information being gathered whatsoever, and goes on to say that he's also not attempting to sell you anything. Generally by now, you'd have either hung up on such a telemarketer or gave them a rather florid piece of your mind - depending on your overall mood at that very moment.

Yet something's definitely different about this particular telemarketer. And although you can't quite put your finger on it, you're mildly intrigued enough to see what his game is.

First, he begins with little, innocent inquiries... "What is your age bracket?", “What is your job?", "Where do you go for vacations?" So far, these questions appear harmless enough, so you you happily continue playing along with his little game (as you enjoy your own private amusement all the while).

However, soon the questions start getting noticeably more personal. Midway through this supposed "30 second" survey, he again assures you there's only "one last question".

You start to become quietly irritated and suspicious as the questions got more personal. But his speedy assurances and non-stop friendly chitterchatter leaves you little time to think straight, so you keep answering these progressively more personal questions.

At the close of what amounted a very personal 5 minute interview, this complete stranger politely thanks you and hangs up. At this point, you're confused as to why this dude didn't even try to sell anything.

"Hindsight is 20/20" as the old saying goes, when you finally discover his hidden agenda a couple days later (by way of yet another seemingly random phone call).

Except this time, it's from a sultry-sounding female. When you answer the phone, she calls you by name like a long lost friend. You're instantly intrigued, figuring it must be someone who you somehow fell out of touch with in the past.

WHAM! It all of a sudden hits you, as she reminds you of the previous telemarketer phone call. Not skipping a beat, she congratulates you for being among the lucky 10 people to qualify for a limited gift. All you have to do was to attend a short seminar.

You then realize you've been duped... it won't be a short seminar and there'll definitely be more than 10 individuals there, because you'd attended a similar "seminar" in the past.

At the core level, this strategy involves getting a individual to agree to a harmless little request, and then progressively presenting larger ones.

By agreeing to a brief 30-second impersonal survey, the telemarketer then drags it on for a full 5 minutes via incessant amounts of "just one more question!"; whereby stealthily squeezing far too much personal info out of you.

Now, if this telemarketer told you up front that it would be a semi-personal 5-minute survey, you would have flatly refused.

Moral; As a whole, individuals are far more probable to comply with a request that costs little in time, money, or effort. Especially if the requests start super simple, and work up in baby steps.

Persuasive Seduction Strategy #2: Cognitive Dissonance

This strategy centers on the theory of cognitive dissonance, which is an uncomfortable feeling induced by holding two contradictory ideas at the same time. The thoughts or emotions (i.e. cognitions) at odds with one another may include attitudes, beliefs, behaviors, and/or facts.

In other words, cognitive dissonance generally occurs when one thought implies the opposite of another.

Moreover, the cognitive dissonance hypothesis suggests that individuals have a strong motivational drive to avoid cognitive dissonance by either 1) adjusting or 2) rationalizing their conflicting cognitions in such a way as to alleviate the discomfort.

For instance, animal rights activism could be translated as inconsistent with eating meat or wearing leather. Acknowledging the contradiction would lead to dissonance... anxiety, frustration, anger, embarrassment, stress, confusion, etc.

Conversely, when people's thoughts are congruent, their cognitions are in a state of harmony (i.e. consonance). If cognitions are unrelated, they're categorized as irrelevant to one another and do not lead to dissonance.

Social engineers have also discovered that individuals will often change their immediate viewpoint positions to match their behaviors (so as to avoid the induced cognitive dissonance discomfort).

A more benevolent use of cognitive dissonance is via dissonant colloquialisms to instill strong curiosity. For example... "Post-Pregnancy Pot Bellies Are The New Sexy [Proof Inside]!".

It's cognitive dissonance in the sense of two conflicting mental images (i.e. pregnancy flab being sexy). However, instead of causing discomfort, it instead incites a "WTF?!"-style curiosity; whereby the reader has to solve the unsolved riddle as it were.

Persuasive Seduction Strategy #3: The Low Ball Strategy

The Low Ball Strategy works by first making commitment and/or closure to the thought or item which you want the other human to accept. It then taps into our primordial hardwiring: Most individuals will act consistently with their beliefs to hold up the commitment - even when the agreement is altered midstream by the other party.

The Low Ball Strategy can also contain an illusion of irrevocability; whereby a individual believes that a decision made can't be overturned. For instance, when a individual agrees to buy a car and considers the handshake to be the deal-sealer (vs. actually forking over the money).

Controlling Sexual Addiction MRR Ebook

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Chapter 5: Changes To Make

Synopsis

Environmental alteration precedes life change. Life-change doesn't happen with resolutions, hopes, and exertions of self-control. Unless we do things to alter our surroundings -making it more tributary to our fresh dedication - we'll unavoidably regress into old behaviors. In the fight between self-control and surroundings, surroundings always wins.

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Nobody has adequate self-control to sustain substantial life-change if their personal surroundings subverts those alterations with enticements and disheartenment. If we don't alter our surroundings, the only leverage we have is the force of will, and self-control is a much more limited commodity than we recognize.

Envisage somebody attempting to accomplish sobriety from an addiction to alcohol while working as a barkeep. Naturally it's theoretically possible to refrain from drinking in that circumstance, but to do so would call for facing down mighty and repeated enticements. A human may only be expected to defeat a limited number of these enticements.

To be successful, the recovering alcoholic has to alter the environment so that he or she isn't required to battle such a ceaseless fight. Our surroundings are multi-dimensional. It includes loved ones, friendships, workplace, the places we spend our time (physical surroundings), and the media we devour. 4 areas are particularly crucial:

Discover a safe community of recovering addicts. This is the most often ordered technique for recovery, and for great reason. It's vitally crucial for the recovering sex addict to be in community with others who comprehend his or her battle, and support them in it. I've yet to discover an individual who accomplished long-run recovery who wasn't part of some rather support group.

Even a person "accountability partner" isn't adequate. For the addict who's acquired a pattern of knavery and sexual compulsion, it's simple to float out of touch with one's accountability partner when we're struggling. And occasionally, when we need this individual and do reach out, he himself might be struggling or unavailable.

An individual in recovery will require a multiplicity of hoi polloi who will assist him or her in this journey. By being a part of a group, recovering addicts are exposed to an assortment of challenges and resolutions, successes and failures, thoughts and insights. There is an assortment of support groups available for individuals fighting with sex addiction. There are numerous 12-step groups specifically centered on sex addiction and many church groups likewise. We encourage addicts to center on groups that comprehend and center on sex addiction particularly.

Sex addiction is unparalleled. It bears its own brand of guilt, and is often misunderstood not only by the population as a whole, but likewise by other addicts. Recovering sex addicts postulate a place where they may be truthful, and where other addicts may be truthful with them. A different reason support groups are so crucial is that many sex addicts are ravenous for friendship. Sex addiction is a sequestering syndrome. Addicts live "in their heads," disquieted by thoughts of sexual illusion, plans for acting out, or guilt for having acted out. They depersonalize and fantasize about the individuals around them, instead of relating genuinely with them. Moreover, sex addicts are detached as they've produced walls of deception to hide their conduct. They live in dread and guilt, convinced that "if individuals truly knew the facts about me they wouldn't love me."

The only way to defeat this reclusiveness is to acquire safe relationships where addicts may be truthful about their tales, and discover acceptance and love. And this may be established in support groups with like-minded sex addicts in recovery.

Remove enticements For the same grounds that an alcoholic shouldn't spend time in a lounge, the sex addict has to monitor the individuals and images around him or her, and restrict the things that will set off sexual ideas and illusions. Particular video channels could need to be blocked off, and Net filter or accountability software arranged. The recovering sex addict might decide not to go to particular films, or visit particular parts of town, beaches, etc. The enticements encountered in these places are just too mighty. One place of specific importance is to go through the house and office to make certain that any hoard of sexual material is removed. This plainly includes porn, but likewise might include secret email accounts, post office boxes, or cells.

Remain hyper- watchful about emotional health. Individuals in recovery from sex addiction have to discover ways of addressing the emotional ups and downs of life without acting out sexually. In the past tense, they've turned to illusion and sexual practice as a way to handle painful feelings. So when dreadful feelings come up, addicts must recognize that their sobriety is at risk. They've learned to refuse or minimize the damaging feelings they have, and rather utilized illusion and sexual practice as a way to handle these emotions. The process of recovery calls for gaining a fresh predisposition to the feelings that come on, and acquiring techniques to deal with them. The journey of recovery calls for acquiring a fresh regard to one's emotional state, and applying healthy coping techniques for terrible emotions like sorrow, anger, and fear.

Work toward reconciliation and health in wedlock. Many addicts who are wed have significant trouble to work through with their mates, and a great deal healing to be done. Sex addiction is particularly destructive for marriages. Its very expression assaults the commitment to sexual fidelity, and produces enormous hurt and alienation. Acting out behaviors are nearly always attached to some sort of dishonesty - and frequently an voluminous web of lies - so trust has likewise been broken and needs to be reconstructed. Sex addicts require help formulating intimate relationships. Their addiction and the lies and shame it fosters has produced a distance and shallowness in their marriage. Many addicts don't understand how to process their angriness toward their mate in a healthy way. Because they're used to feeling shame and guilt about their actions, they can't discover ways of accepting and expressing their own needs and sufferings. When they experienced anger in the past, they frequently acted out sexually rather than dealing with the letdown or hurt that induced the feeling. Now they have to learn to do this. However it's more complicated than that. Sex addicts have to discover how to be truthful about their feelings and needs with the mate that they've hurt deeply.

List Authority MRR Ebook

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Chapter 6: Generating Traffic To Your Landing Page

Unfortunately, landing pages are not a case of 'build it and they will come'. Simply having your landing page up and running is not enough to start making money - you need to make sure people can find it.

One way to do this is with SEO - Search Engine Optimization. Another is with social media marketing which will involve building lots of fans and followers on Twitter and Facebook and then shouting out to them.

Just one problem: those strategies both take a lot of time. The goal of this book is to get you 1,000 subscribers in 1 month. You just can't do that with SEO - but the good news is that we're going to prove that you don't have to use marketing techniques to quickly build a huge list of subscribers.

Solo Ads and Ad Swaps

One option you can use is solo ads or ad swaps.

We mentioned solo ads earlier in the book - this is when you send an email out to someone else's mailing list usually for a fee.

Unfortunately we also said this wasn't a good way to make sales and conversions because those people wouldn't know you and thus might resent you contacting them. So why is this here?

Well the good news is that this strategy is useful for growing your list. While you shouldn't use ad swaps to generate income, there is no reason they can't be used to grow your own list and then to monetize that subsequently.

Ad swaps meanwhile mean that you're swapping your mailing list with someone else's. This is a more advanced method for when you already have your list that you can grow it - but in the meantime you can use ad swaps by trading something else. How about writing content for someone or promoting their product in exchange for a shoutout?

The best way to use this system is to find a big name blogger or internet marketer in your niche who already has a great reputation and then to ask them to help you reach out to their audience. This can be highly effective because it means that you don't just get the exposure, you also essentially get a testimonial from someone who has already done the ground work building up trust and loyalty.

How do you find these big names to ask? Look for blogs that are successful in your niche with email newsletters and just ask. A lot of success when it comes to digital marketing and the web generally is just about being ballsy enough to put yourself out there and make connections.

PPC

PPC stands for 'Pay Per Click' and is a form of advertising that you can use to get immediate visitors to your landing page. The idea behind pay per click is that you only pay if someone clicks on your ad. This is great news because it means that as long as the people visiting your landing page are converting well, you will get guaranteed results for the amount you spend.

To make PPC work, you need to use ads that are upfront and forthright. Say right in your advertising message that the ad is for a free newsletter in X niche. This way, the only people who click on the ad will be people who might be interested in signing up. That means no wasted cash on people who are just going to leave your landing page right away.

Another strategy is to advertise your free incentive. 'Click here to get a free ebook on X'. Again, the only people who click will be people who are interested in what you're offering meaning that you won't waste any cash on unsuccessful ads or clicks.

There are two particularly PPC networks. The first is 'AdWords' which puts your ads above the search results on Google and the second is Facebook which places your ads in the sidebar on Facebook's Home Feed.

Google ads are great because the people who see them will be actively looking for whatever it is you're looking for. If you market your mailing list as a 'course' then you find people are actively searching for 'finger painting courses'. If that's your niche, then you can pay to appear as one of the 'sponsored ads' for that particular search term and this will help to bring lots of people who are interested in your subject to your page. What's more, those people will be interested in signing up right now - that's where the real value of AdWords lies.

Another useful thing about Google ads is that they help you to test out the keywords that are most valuable. If you will later be doing SEO, then you can use this strategy to find keywords you know will help you to build your list/make sales.

Facebook meanwhile allows you to target your audience in a different way. On Facebook, you look at the details that users have given about themselves to identify viable targets. For instance, if you are writing about wedding dresses, then you will likely want to approach engaged women who are in a certain age bracket. You can do this through Facebook ads and thereby ensure that specifically those people are seeing your ads.

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Learn How To Make The Most Of Your Account And Profile

There are several effective ways to maximize the use of the twitter tool to enhance the account and profile of a site. The more exposure the site is able to attract the better the prospects of increased revenue earned.

Good Tips

The following are just some recommendations on how to go about achieving this ideal scenario:

Perhaps the foremost point to make would be to effectively use the twitter tool to find and add newer contacts to an already existing list. The literal concept here is follow and be followed. Using emails as another follow up tool will encourage the viewer to pursue the initial contact.

Letting the viewing audience know that there is a twitter page where your antics can be followed is part of the social networking engine. Using the other tools on the social networking platform to announce this is quite effective.

Adding the twitter information to the email signature is also another way to allow and encourage viewers to follow the postings.

Blogging about the twitter page being featured is also encouraged. Reminding all viewers of the regular intervals of posting through the blogging tool will create the excitement to encourage them to keep tabs on the latest information being dispensed.

The twitter widget is also another additional beneficial element to make use of as this allows the other viewers to be aware of the frequency of the twitting exercise. The twitter widget should be added to the site of blog.

Listing on the twitter directories is another way to explore the possibilities of getting noticed. These directories are very effective in getting the site noticed by those seeking similar information.

Ensuring the twitter page is attractive and attention grabbing will create the interest in wanting to follow the page. Use eye catching background and color schemes, avatars and bio information.

Avoid Over Promoting

Over promoting is a very dangerous category to fall into as this may eventually cause the viewing audience to turn elsewhere for the information they seek thus severely damaging the twitter page's chances of making a success of whatever is being featured. Therefore it is necessary to check that this negative element does not appear and cause the damaging effects.

Be Cautious

Twitters have a "language" of their own and understanding and using it is both necessary and beneficial if the individual hosting a twitter site wants to be taken seriously in this arena.

There is a need to ensure the various new terms used as posting material which does not adhere to this will eventually get the site discredited or ignored. Choosing an unsuitable name is also to be avoided as this will cause the professionalism element to be severely discredited and not taken seriously.

Getting into a bragging mode with the intention of promoting something is a thinly disguised attempt to get noticed. When done often enough it will cause the exact opposite effects instead, as those originally viewing the site will end up being exasperated and bored.

Bad choice of timing is also another element to avoid as it may seem that the tweets are being run too frequently and even if the viewing was missed initially.

The unsolicited frequency of the tweeting exercise will eventually cause annoyance as viewers may no longer be interested in the same information being posted.

More often than not this self promoting material can get redundant even if what is being promoted is useful and relevant in the host's perspective.

Repetitive information will become stale. Sometimes when there is too much promoting done, the basic need to address certain issues are overlooked or ignored. This will frustrate the participating viewer as the concerns fail to be addressed effectively.

Follow And Use Relevant Tweets

In order to gain beneficial leverage in the online business platform various advantages elements should be sourced and utilized as often as possible. Following and using relevant tweets does have its benefits and it should be worth taking the time and explore this further. Below are some of the reasons why following and using relevant tweets can be useful and beneficial:

Be Relevant

Making use of the hashtags will allow the relevant searches to be more efficient and convenient. It increases the chances of the tweets being viewed by those interested in the particular area being featured. However using multiple hashtags should be avoided as it will only be categorized as spam.

Using twitter to check what the competitors are doing in terms of new launches, promotions, products, services and a variety of other progressive exercises is definitely a wise move to make. This information will help to enhance one's own endeavors and bring about more compatible percentages of increased success.

Tweets should also be carefully analyzed for its popularity and responsive presence. Tweaking the information posted or ideas exchanged in order o attract attention is necessary in order to stay relevant.

In order to do this one must first understand the abbreviations commonly used by the twitting participants. This is the only way one will be able to follow and understand the contents of the tweet.

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The Value of Likes and Shares in Engaging Your Customer

Engaging your customers online is an important undertaking of every business and one of those ways is to engage them through social media. The social response is a way for your customers and potential customers to weigh in on what is being said on social media.

When a follower likes your content it generally means they have read it and they found it interesting or agreed with it. For the most part if a person, likes something it means it didn't offend them. A like is similar to a 'thumbs up.' If they share your content then generally it means that they see it as having some value to others.

If you earn a comment, you need to realize this takes the most amount of effort so it is apparent that you have successfully achieved a high level of engagement and that is what your goal should be. To know that you are engaging with your customers online in an effective manner, you want to see them leaving comments on your posts. If day after day your posts get little engagement then you need to consider what you can do to change the situation, because it is apparent that you are not successfully engaging.

Of course, results you can measure relate to why you are on social media to begin with. If you are there just to raise your brand's awareness than you will likely have to accept getting likes and shares and little more. However, if you are there to engage with your followers or connections then you will want to create a two way conversation as much as possible.

You need to recognize that the more you can create these two way conversations and engage with your customers and followers the more interested they will be in visiting your pages and seeing what's new and exciting in your company world and what new products/services you might have to offer.

Generating this kind of interest is good for business. It takes little effort to click a like button and really not even read what's in front of you. It takes much more effort to engage on a post and that means your followers are actually paying attention to what you have to say and they find it valuable enough to have a conversation about. That's true customer engagement online and that's what is going to grow your business and improve brand recognition.

How to Engage Your Customers With Holiday Marketing

It seems there's always a holiday around the corner. When it comes to online marketing no longer, do we wait for Black Friday to send our online marketing into overdrive? Instead, we now address the holidays as they arrive. In fact, smart businesses think about starting their marketing kick offs earlier rather than late.

At one point, we recognized the main holidays like Christmas, New Years, Easter, etc. Now we recognize many holiday (as far as marketing goes) including Black Friday, Halloween, Martin Luther King Day, etc. It seems retailers from all walks have learned that holiday marketing can be extremely beneficial to them.

Let's look at Halloween as an example. When you are planning your Halloween campaign consider this, 71.5 percent of all adults plan to celebrate or participate in some kind of Halloween activity. There is no specific demographic that is more likely to participate than another. This would indicate that no matter what demographic you serve you can benefit from running a marketing campaign through Halloween. This is one example of how knowing the stats for a particular holiday can be beneficial in helping you decide whether to run a campaign. Generally speaking, if you ignore a holiday you will be missing out on a marketing opportunity and a way to engage your customers.

How to Engage Your Customers With Holidays

Have a loyalty program where holidays build additional bonus points. You can even run a separate loyalty program from just holidays if you want. Always test the waters first. See how receptive your customers are to a loyalty program. Try to design one specific to your brand and your customer needs. Your options truly are endless.

Offer free giveaways with purchases on holidays or create mystery packs that you sell on holidays.

You can use this in many ways to participate in the festivities of the holiday season. Don't be afraid to be extremely creative with your giveaways and try to tie them to the holiday.

A holiday is an excellent time to give your site a facelift. Work with your website designer to make small holiday related changes to your pages. You can have a lot of fun to this! You might even be able to make the changes yourself depending on your skills or how much access you have to your site.

This is an excellent time to reach out to your customers and engage them. You can combine your marketing for that period with the holiday. Include social media and email campaigns. Let your customers know that you love to celebrate these special times.

Learning how to engage your customers by incorporating holiday celebrations is a skill you won't want to miss out on.

Online Customer Engagement Means You Need Insight on Your Customers

If you think about it, the customers that have purchased from you are special. You have their money -they liked what you had to say and offer and so they made a purchase. These customers now have their own unique perspective on customer engagement with your company, from finding your company online, to comparing you to the competition, and deciding to buy from you. What happens after that? Your company might reward them, simply re-sell to them, or maybe even ignore them.

The first thing you need to understand is how they see you based on their experience with your company. This means you need to harness the insights you have on your existing customers and these insights could help you do a much better job of generating sales.

There are numerous ways that you can generate customer insight. However, you should incorporate some of it into the day-to-day operation of your business. Other components can be carried out during key periods throughout the year. It's a good idea to ask questions around their satisfaction with their purchase, how their online customer experience was, what it was like to deal with your company from an outside perspective, did you meet your customers requirements and expectations, etc.

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Banner Ads

Banner advertising is another tool that is often used to get the recognition of the product or service to the attention of the viewing public. Having its own merits, the banner ads tool has proven to be effective in its own way.

Banners

There are a few options available as to how to capitalize on the use of banner ads. The banner ads can be used as pay per click or flat rate payments styles.

This would mean the banner ad gets the viewing public's attention when they click on the sites that have the ads featured or when directly click on the banner.

The banner ads can be posted on other sites for a nominal fee, and having a competitively appealing ad can help to create the necessary interest in what is being featured.

Also being able to narrow down the target audience and the focus on this chosen audience helps to get the ads to the intended prospects without too much hassle.

Using the link exchange, back links and submission of websites will effectively work towards garnering the necessary traffic interests which should eventually convert into actual revenue earning power.

Some things to consider when designing an impactful banner ad would be as follows:

Of course making the ad as attention grabbing as possible within the first few second is crucial to ensuring the viewer takes the trouble to continue giving it their undivided attention till the end of the ad

Making use of fairly large logos or theme designs will also contribute to brand awareness which in turn will cause the viewer to immediately and favorably connect to the idea of its possible content.

The use of "attractive" looking people to be feature in the ads is always welcomed and most people like to look and admire such individuals. It also subconsciously works towards some unspoken connection that could work in the favor of making the ad relatable.

Social Marketing

As social marketing is a platform that allows several different tools to be used it is often the popular choice made by those who are interested in getting as much exposure for the sites as possible. These tools may include videos, blogs, photo sharing sites, social networking sites and bookmarking websites.

Social Sites

The increased visibilities these tools can provide will effectively distribute the information posted thus making the social marketing style one which ensures links back to the host site. With creative and interesting content featured the site will have almost no problem attracting visitor to the site.

With better targeting opportunities through this tool, the segment of internet users can be better filtered and thus limiting any wastage of time and resources.

The various parameter elements and tools on the social media website are usually able to create the increased level of visibility needed. This target style of a specific group can also contribute to the awareness of the personal branding concept.

The ROI is also considerably higher when compared with other options available for the furtherance of an internet foray because the only real commitment would be the time invested. Being free and efficient does have its attractive advantage.

The skills required for the use of the social marketing platform is also comparatively less, as other tools in most cases require some form of informed knowledge of the workings and positive attributes of the said tool.

The social marketing platform does not required any technical skill and thus can be designed and used by anyone online.

Strong basic communication skills would suffice in making the site a success with this style. It allows the individual to successfully build the brand and site at a chosen comfortable pace.

Another positive angle the social marketing attributes is the human touch or contact it allows. This is because the information is directly exchanged where others may take on the form of continuously directing banner ads and link ads to the viewer which in turn cause undue frustration and eventual annoyance.

Brochures And Direct Mail

The idea behind making any particular choice of the mode to be used to get a product or service noticed through internet marketing is to hold and keep the attention of the viewer long enough and effectively enough to convert them into loyal paying customers.

Putting It On Paper

Therefore by using tools like brochures and direct mail, this idea is explored and capitalized upon and in most cases has proven to be an advantages choice made. The following points should give some indication as to why this is so:

The credibility issue is clearly shown through the use of brochures and direct mail choices. With the use of these platforms the viewer is immediately given the "whole picture" of what it's all about. Fact and figures are often included in the information to provide the evidence of what is being promoted.

In general people like to have some material presented to them in an interesting and enticing design that will give them both the information needed to convince them to make a commitment to purchasing or simply to be better informed about what is being offered, thus brochures act as a good introductory tool and direct mail works to get the immediate attention of the viewer.

Knowing what the target audience is likely to be looking for and designing the material specifically to cater to this line of thought is very important in garnering higher interest levels in the endeavor being advertised.

The contents of the brochures and direct mail should ideally address the issues of page content, product descriptions, product capabilities and such in a concise and effective way while keeping the general theme of being attention grabbing. Using other internet marketing tools to help accomplish these criteria would also be encouraged.

One should remember this is the probably among the first contact platforms the viewer will have to connect to the product or service and thus it should be capitalized upon to its optimum.

Face To Face Marketing

For some this style of getting their businesses, products or services noticed can be quite challenging and even a daunting prospect, while for others this face to face approach present all the positive elements they relish in order to allow them to effectively exercise their potential capabilities.

Person To Person

Being able to directly interact with potential customers can be quite exciting if one is confidently equipped with the right attitude and tools.