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Foreword

One of the best ways to acquire traffic to your site is by commenting on relevant blogs in your niche however as this is one of the best and most preached ways to acquire traffic to a blog it's being abused by so many individuals thereby leading to no results.. So read on to pull traffic.

Blogging For Big Bucks

Chapter 1:

Blog Commenting Basics

Simply put blog commenting is another way of describing comments made on other individual’s blogs. These kinds of comments or notes are usually posted on blogs which the individual has visited and finds interesting enough to take the time to make a comment.

The Background

Though a common practice for some, this leaving comments practice, can be made into an exercise or tool for marketing purposes. Perhaps the next time one decides to make a contribution via the commenting style; one should consider the advantages it could bring about in terms of creating an interest in the comment that leads to traffic back to the individual’s site.

The blog commenting if done well and with a certain level of respect for other bloggers and their contributions can help form a very fruitful relationship between the various parties involved.

When the comments are thoughtful and informative, most would appreciate the effort and time taken to post the comment. Also in doing so, the individual is able to create awareness of his or her own presence within the others who may visit the said site and read the comments.

Thus a following can be formed whereby those interested in further exploring the commenter’s other works would then visit the commenter’s site.

In actively practicing the habit of leaving and reading comments posted, the individual is also able to broaden his or her own knowledge base.

This of course would be very helpful should a query be made on the topic just commented upon where the individual is now knowledgeable enough to be able to advice or provide a suitable solution.

However is the process of making use of the blog commenting as a tool to garner traffic to one’s own site, it should be remembered that there is a necessity to put the URL in the website or URI box and nowhere else.

Chapter 2: The Benefits Of Blog Commenting

Blog comments are really very important to the consistent popularity of any site. This style of commenting can be beneficial to all parties concerned.

How You Benefit

The benefits of encouraging blog comments can be positive and far reaching. From the perspective to keeping the site lively and interactive blog comments are the dominant force in producing such an environment.

When a site has the constant exchange of comments there will be a steady flow of interest in the site or blog because the people involved in the commenting would want to view the responses to their comments.

This also applies to those visitors who are not physically participating in the commenting process, but are only interested in viewing the comments. Therefore the high traffic drawn to the site would be an important benefit.

Another benefit would be the links that can be affiliated to the site. As all blogs and website depend on as many links as possible receiving and making comments on blogs would then create the possibility of valuable back links.

This of course would depend on the comments and its frequency. With this exchange of links a further audience is reached which translates into a heightened level of traffic flow.

The popularity of the site and the heightened traffic to the site will then attract the search engines to rank the website favorably. This is a feature that most sites work hard to achieve as it speaks on some level about the positive attributes of the site.

Another benefit to blog commenting is the further understanding of the sight by others. With all the information being exchanged through the blog commenting process a lot of very important information can be learnt and realized. This kind of information exchange can sometimes be more effective than advertising.

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Throughout the journey of life, you may find yourself overwhelmed. Maybe it's in a good way, or perhaps it's in a negative way. Regardless of who you are, where you are, or what situation you're in –the power of positive mental reinforcement can be increasingly important. That's why this PDF contains 50 self-esteem and self-confidence boosting affirmations that YOU can use to help keep yourself on track.

1. I am unique. I feel good about being alive and being me.
2. Life is fun and rewarding.
3. Amazing opportunities exist for me in every aspect of my life.
4. There are no such things as problems, only opportunities.
5. I love challenges, they bring out the best in me.
6. I replace “I must”, “I should” and “I have to” with “I choose”. (try it with something you think you have to do, and replace must with choose… notice the difference?)
7. I choose to be happy right now. I love my life.
8. I appreciate everything I have. I live in joy.
9. I am courageous. I am willing to act in spite of any fear.
10. I am positive and optimistic. I believe things will always work out for the best.
11. It’s easy to make friends. I attract positive and kind people into my life.
12. It’s easy to meet people. I create positive and supportive relationships.
13. I am a powerful creator. I create the life I want.
14. I am OK as I am. I accept and love myself.
15. I am confident. I trust myself.
16. I am successful right now.
17. I am passionate. I am outrageously enthusiastic and inspire others.
18. I am calm and peaceful.
19. I have unlimited power at my disposal.
20. I am optimistic. I believe things will always work out for the best.
21. I am kind and loving. I am compassionate and truly care for others.
22. I am focused and persistent. I will never quit.
23. I am energetic and enthusiastic. Confidence is my second nature.
24. I treat everyone with kindness andrespect.
25. I inhale confidence and exhale fear.
26. I am flexible. I adapt to change quickly.
27. I have integrity. I am totally reliable. I do what I say.
28. I love and accept myself unconditionally.
29. I approve of myself and feel great about myself.
30. I radiate love and respect and in return I get love and respect.
31. I am a well loved and well respected person.
32. I am a cultured and wise and yet, a humble person.

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Low self-esteem can trigger people to develop negative features such as depression, lack of happiness, insecurity and an overall poor confidence level.

When you lack the self-esteem in your life, every subtle mistake that happens in your day is taken to heart. People's criticism of you, your making of mistakes, and even a joke directed towards you will cause you to shy away from every opportunity that floats your way. Every challenge will appear impossible to accomplish for you.

This will cause you to feel stagnant and as a result, your life may lose meaning and purpose.

On the other hand, you can develop a better self-image, just like learning to skateboard or play a guitar.

Additionally, people don't seem to understand the utter importance of possessing high self-esteem.

I really can't even begin to stress the importance of it; as it's the key to having physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual strength and balance in life.

In this brief but hopefully informative course, I'm going to detail the stage of developing self-esteem and how you can boost your overall self-image, with ease. The first stage of developing inner strength is through learning to love yourself for who you are, and your life for what it is. You need to learn to be grateful for what you've been given in life. You need to let go of the anger and hostility that's bottled up inside of you. Holding in negative emotions doesn't help you on your path to building self-esteem. Always remember that the past is the past and you can only change the present and work towards the future.

You need to love yourself by accepting all of your shortcomings or faults, and putting the past behind you entirely. But if you continue to focus on your faults, then you're only going experience displeasure, disappointment, and unhappiness in your life. You need to focus on thinking positively and focusing on your accomplishments as well as your strengths.

To live life with a positive state of mind, you need to possess high self-esteem. You need to truly feel that you're no different from anyone else, and that you can indeed become the person that you've set out in your mind to become.

You may need to reconstruct your life. You need to always put yourself in a lifestyle that's going to make you happy and also bring you as little stress as possible.

Now, to begin with the actual “healing” process, you're going to need to develop wisdom, strength, confidence, and of course, knowledge. If you can work towards developing and honing these qualities, you'll achieve your goals much easier, and your dreams will be come a reality.

First, you'll want to focus on the goals and dreams that you DO want to fulfill. Be reasonable though, but remember that NOTHING is truly ever out of your reach. In the next section, I'm going to enlighten you with the “true” meanings of having wisdom, strength, knowledge, and confidence. I'll be showing you how to obtain these positive features and how to use them. The following four steps will help you to live a much more fulfilling life, as well as improving your self-esteem.

Below are just four simple but very effective steps to follow to ensure that you make positive growth with your self-esteem and self-image.

Strength

The development of strength in the inner body begins in the mind. The inner body consists of our mind, spirit, and soul. I know it sounds far-fetched, but follow along with me here. How we think and program our minds to work, as a result, helps us to build mental, physical, and spiritual strength.

Our strength comes from how we actually feel towards ourselves. The better our self-image, the stronger we're going to feel, and in turn, the more we'll be able to do for ourselves.

At the same time, if you possess the motivation and inner (and outer) strength, you can make your present into anything that you desire. To free yourself of all the negative emotions that are suppressing you, you need to adjust your mindset entirely.

You'll want to say to yourself:

“I accept myself for who I am and that I am unable to change the past.

Nevertheless, I can change my future because I love and respect myself and refuse to hurt myself by drowning in my own self-pity.”

You cannot rely solely on others. You absolutely need to learn to rely on yourself. You have to believe in yourself in order to develop a sense of pride. It really doesn't matter what others around you think of you, what matters is how you choose to view yourself.

We were put on this earth to achieve something, love others, and not hurt ourselves OR take our anger out on others, who are usually the people we care about the most, and ourselves.

Knowledge

Another crucial factor in helping yourself and furthering the process of change, is none other than knowledge.

You see, knowledge comes from experience, which is a result of being open minded to the suggestions others may give (as well as our own). We may not always agree with the other person's perspective, however it's always wise to listen to them and hear them out.

Some individuals may try to be controlling of your actions or decisions. They may become frustrated if you refuse to act upon what they've suggested or told you.

In this case, you need to put your foot down and set these people straight by saying:

“I will listen to what you have to say; however, that doesn't necessarily mean that I'm going to agree with you. As I have my own mind, and I know what's best for my decisions and life.”

We learn from each other, and we acquire knowledge from the massive world around us. It's important to pass along what we've learned to others, in an attempt to help them.

At the same time, we need to take our experience and use it in our present life right now, including the mistakes that we've made in life. The mistakes that we've made are where we end up with the most knowledge that helps us to become stronger as a whole. What weakens us is when we repeatedly make the same mistakes without learning or taking knowledge from them.

Don't pity yourself for your mistakes that you've made or your imperfections. Studies have actually shown that people who have negative attitudes are far more likely to live chaotic lives. They're more likely to become mentally or physically ill with often times debilitating or life threatening issues. Many people have a hard time focusing on the positives in life because they just allow the negatives to end up consuming them.

What you need to do is say to yourself: Okay, I've learned from my mistakes and my shortcomings in life.

Taking what you've learned and using it or applying it to help others is excellent selftherapy too. When you help out, you feel a sense of accomplishment and self-worth.

You're overlooking any negative characteristics because you're too busy with focusing on helping others. It's that simple!

Confidence

Our confidence mostly comes from our own self-esteem. To possess high selfesteem, we need to feel good about ourselves. In order to get to this point in life, you need to start doing things that make you happy, focusing on the future, and creating direction and purpose in your life.