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Chapter 5 Making Changes with Your Ex

When you are working on getting back together with your ex, both of you have to keep in mind that it takes two to repair a relationship. Both of you must agree to do what it takes to make it happen. If only one of you wants to make progress, the relationship will be doomed from the start. After both of you have decided to move forward with getting back together, you will have to take renewed steps to get it right this time. Maybe one of you has a habit of a bad temper. Count to ten before you say anything if there is something you are not happy about or if something doesn’t go your way. Making that step to change bad habits is a plus.

Making a Fresh Start

Basically, you are starting all over again with your ex so make it a completely fresh start. You will have to get to know each other again from the beginning so think about the first time the two of you met and get reacquainted with each other. Think about some of the special times that you had with your ex and see if you can relive some of those times again.

If it was your fault that the relationship failed previously, seek and ask for forgiveness for the mistakes you made. Also, forgive yourself for what happened as this is the only way that you can move forward without carrying a burden of guilt. You and your ex need to be willing to change your thinking about certain things because you cannot take some of the same attitudes that you had before and use them, as they maybe detrimental to your relationship. Work on rebuilding your future than staying stuck in your past because you won’t move anywhere if you don’t move on.

Communication

You and your ex must be willing to listen to each other in order to communicate effectively. Don’t brush off things that your ex has to say as in essence, you are disconnecting them from you. Disconnection can lead to a distant relationship and can eventually lead to another break up. Some people have a way of being blunt and although it’s a matter of not what you say but how you say it, think before you speak! Your mouth can be a dangerous weapon if you’re not careful and if you say things in a condescending manner, then it won’t be received well.

Nourish the relationship and each other. When you do that, you allow the relationship to grow. So, be a caring and affectionate person and show your ex that you care for them and that you are serious about getting back together.

Discuss things openly with him and be honest and upfront, but not blunt, during conversations. Work on your differences and don’t let them stop you from moving forward. Also, work on your problems together as a couple, as both you and your ex have to trust each other, which is extremely important in any relationship. It’s even more important when you are trying to get back together as trust makes for a good relationship and if you don’t have trust, your relationship will be doomed from the start. If the cause of the breakup of your relationship previously was a lack of trust, then that trust will of course have to be earned again. Keep the baggage out of the relationship and away from your ex. It will not do any good for you or him as it just hinders the relationship between you both even more.

When you are learning to bond with your ex again, take it day by day and don’t be in a rush to make it right. This time around, you want your relationship with your ex to last.

Get yourself in order first before you take on a rekindled relationship with your ex. Both of you have to be past the “broken” stage in order to give it another chance so love yourself first. Be honest with yourself and when you’ve mastered that, then you can start loving your ex all over again. Make getting back with your ex a positive experience.

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The same goes with the trial offer. They come to your main page and buy your $47 self confidence program. Then you think that you don’t have anything else to offer. Get a resell rights product related to your topic and turn that into a trial offer. Tell them that if they tick on your tick box which you can use 1 ClickUpgrade to do, they will also get an eBook for free. You don’t have to tell them that it’s not you who wrote the eBook. You’re not lying or trying to be manipulative. You're just describing what the second offer is, which is another eBook on how to end procrastination. You don’t have to tell them that you didn’t write it. Besides, do you think that they really care whether or not you wrote if the resell rights product is good and lives up to the content that it promises?

The other thing is private label rights products. It's the same thing as resell rights but the difference is you have the rights to edit the product itself and use your name as the author or owner of the product. Of course private label rights would be better but most of the time, not all of the time, private label rights products are ghostwritten products. This means they suck. They are not prepared, written or developed based on real success stories or proven methods. They come from a perspective of theories, that theoretically this will work. You have to be careful with that.

If you buy a resell rights product from a famous marketer or known marketer, most of the time you get the real strategies that they also use. You have to balance up how you’re going to do this.

There are advantages and disadvantages to private label rights. Think wisely which end you want to go with. The point is that you’re really not limited or constraint with “no products” to add as upsell. You can always buy resell rights or private label rights. If you want, you can also hire someone to create it for you, that is, if you have the additional funds to do so.

In summary, look at your existing business right now and see where you want to put the upsells. You can put it on the main page of your website, the page before they order or the checkout page. You can put an upsell on each of the 3 pages but if you don’t really know what you’re doing, if you’re kind of new to this game, try not to do that because you could be overselling to your prospects or customers and they might get slightly irritated.

However, at the bare minimum you should put an upsell in at least one of the pages. My suggestion is to go with 2. This means it could be a selection of the main page and the page before the order page or it could be the page before the order page and the checkout page, whichever works well for you. Go with 2.

At least now you have a second chance. If you don’t get them at the main page, you might get them to take up another offer at the page before the order page with your upgrade offer.