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For some reason, women associate your dancing ability to how good you'll be in bed.

Hey, whether this theory is true or not, it seems logical on the surface level, doesn't it? Besides, you're probably smart enough to know not to argue with a woman about these kinds of things.

So... if you tend to go to the club often, or if you prefer meeting women there, you'd better learn to dance.

No, you don't have to be as good as one of J-Lo's backup dancers. Just learn to move to - and flow with - the music.

And, you can actually get away with dancing slower, as long as you're rhythmic and moving with the overall beat.

If the music is faster than you'd like it to be, you can still dance slower, i.e. at half the speed of the music. It will still look fine as long as you're in sync with the music and not off beat.

If you can't seem to get the hang of it on your own, take a class or two so you can learn the basics. That's really all you need.

Remember, it's not about how many new moves you can show off. The key is to move in time with the music, and to be comfortable while doing it.

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Now, you can also start using a technique where you would pretend to misinterpret everything she's saying...and somehow turn it all into her trying to hit on you, flirt with you, or even sleep with you.

For example, she could say...

Her: So, where do you live?

And you could "misinterpret" that by saying...

You: Why? So, you can follow me home, pretend to wanna use the restroom, and then trick me into sleeping with you? I'm not that kinda guy, okay??

You can pretend to be shocked by what she's plotting, but obviously in a light, fun way! And, she may laugh at your comment, or she may say something like, "Oh yeah, you wish!" etc.

This is all harmless fun. But, it also continues to get some part of her mind to keep associating you with sex and fooling around. And, that's what you're trying to do with this stuff anyway.

Also... by pretending to misinterpret her comments and seeing it all as her trying to trick you into sleeping with her, you are also turning the tables on her...in a light, fun way.

You see, usually, it's the women who have to be careful and "on guard" about everything a guy says or does to her.

Women are usually the ones who have to deal with men's hidden agendas and those kinds of "wanna-be sly" moves that guys tend to make.

And women can usually see these "sly moves" coming a mile away. You're simply turning things around on her, in a playful way.

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Building on the previous section, making her feel comfortable and more confident about what she's doing can even help her to do more - and new - things for you. (That can be very good for you.)

The truth is, many women want to feel completely uninhibited in bed. They want to go a little wild, and they want to occasionally take control. They want to take charge and try out a new position that they've just read about, and so on.

Unfortunately, most times she's either too shy, self-conscious, or embarrassed to do it... or she simply doesn't want to come across as "too experienced," promiscuous, or dog forbid, even slutty. (You can thank society for that one.)

It could even be something as simple as "talking dirty" to and with you. But, she may never bring it up herself - even if she's secretly fantasizing about doing it.

The way to loosen her up is to increase her overall comfort level.

Remember, she has to feel comfortable, relaxed, even lusted after, before she will open up and start doing all the things that she really wants to do with you... including all the things that you really want her to do for you.

You can start by making her feel comfortable, safe, and more confident about what she's already doing to/with you...as explained in the earlier section.

And, keep letting her know how great she looks... how much her scent/smell, taste, body, moans, etc. is turning you on...

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The next "quick fix" solution to lasting longer in bed is to simply ignore the early finish (or even arrange a planned execution, beforehand.)

In other words, you can just enjoy your time with your partner. And if you happen to climax too early, simply shrug it off and get back to focusing on her, and on giving her more pleasure. (If you make a big deal out of climaxing too soon, she will too.)

Also, she won't mind your coming too early, unless you immediately roll over and pass out.

So, if you do happen to finish early, no problem. Now, start focusing on her, and help her get close to reaching the climax point...or even finishing.

And, you may often find that by focusing on her for a while, you will become ready again - for a second round.

Remember, don't try to force yourself to get ready for another round. Just enjoy your time with her, and allow your body to do what it does, naturally. (Get your mind, and mental pressure, out of the equation.)

By the way, if you do find yourself becoming ready for an encore performance, you may also realize that you will usually last much longer on the second round.

As touched on earlier, some guys also tend to use the "planned execution." That is, they decide to masturbate (privately) within 30 minutes of having sex with a partner, i.e. they purposely get the "finishing too quickly" event out of the way, before getting together with their partner.

If you decide to go that route, and find that it works for you, that's just fine too.